12 Sad Things to See Happen in the Life of Any Family

Twelve of the saddest things to happen in the life of any family are when…

  1. Parents become emotionally and spiritually absent
  2. Bedtimes take place without affectionate words or hugs
  3. Meals go without prayers
  4. ‘I love you’s’ are seldom spoken
  5. Criticism is more common than praise
  6. Complaining takes the place of gratitude
  7. The television gets more attention than family members
  8. Parents fight more than they flirt in front of their kids
  9. Dust collects around the family Bible
  10. Church attendance becomes a matter of convenience rather than conviction
  11. Random acts of kindness are a rarity
  12. Jesus’ name is seldom mentioned in daily life (at least not in the right kind of way)

But… Imagine for a moment the positive power and potential for our families if all of the above things were reversed.  How wonderful a place could our families be?

What if?…

  1. Parents become emotionally and spiritually engaged
  2. Bedtimes abound with affectionate words and hugs
  3. Meals are always started with prayers
  4. ‘I love you’s’ are frequently spoken
  5. Criticism gets drowned out by praise
  6. Complaining takes a backseat to gratitude
  7. Family members get more attention than the television
  8. Parents flirt more than they fight in front of their kids
  9. Everyone gathers around the family Bible
  10. Church attendance becomes a matter of conviction rather than convenience
  11. Random acts of kindness are the norm
  12. Jesus’ name is regularly mentioned in daily life

How much could your family change if you got a bit more intentional?  Which list best describes your family, and how are you personally contributing to either one?

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